Do you fail when you realise that the thing you wanted in your favour has gone south from your expectations or you fail when you realise you have been failing since so long that you now want to make truce with whatever is easiest for you now.

I read this quote where they do not want you to lose courage because it is what make you sail through the hard times or when easy times pack its bags and leave your house.

If you’ve somehow miraculously reached here through Google or simply because I have a left a mysterious link somewhere announcing, “What to do when you fail?” And you really want to know from a random dude about your course of action then read on.

Failure is an amazing thing to look and think upon. It differentiates you from those who haven’t even tried what you have failed in. You can read the last line again to console yourself. You can lie down, maybe masturbate, or just watch the LOTR trilogy take your mind off the failures and rejuvenate yourself so you can focus again on “trying”.

Surround yourself with people who understand your goals. Try to be more positive. Share your plans with your confidants, intact whisper it directly into their ears. Don’t tell your plans for world. Don’t fall in love. Be with someone who understands where do you want to be.

And at this point if you’re wondering why are you still reading it because you were a failure because of love, then just accept the “not love” of the person you liked. People are different. Just accept the differences and move on.

See, if you’re surrounded with people, then understand they are very important because they have energies. Their energy can bring you down. And it becomes more important when your energy is down because it would be them who would gloriously pick you up and throw you again at your tryst with destiny.

And in case if you are not surrounded by the people, then consider yourself lucky and surround yourself with surround sound speakers and dance to the tunes of Bon Jovi. It’s my life.

Just hold on. Breathe. Good will happen.

P.S. Okay, maybe don’t masturbate much, it’s not as healthy as it has been shown by researchers. It’s addictive.